How did I get started in swinging?
I get this asked a lot, so I thought I should start here!
When Bruce and I first started going out you could consider us fuck buddies more than a romantic relationship. We would basically give each other booty calls, and we had a good time hanging out with one another, there were no strings and we had a great time together. Well, one thing led to another , we continued to hit it off, and before you knew it we were dating.
One night after we had sex, we were talking about my ex boyfriends and Bruce’s ex girlfriends. All of Bruce’s ex’s had been very possessive and wouldn’t even let him go out with other guys in fear of that there would be girls out there. I on the other hand had a boyfriend who wanted to try a variation of swinging. He wanted to see me with two men at the same time. Him and one of his friends. So, one night we tried it, but when the time came, my ex boyfriend got jealous. When I told Bruce this story, his eyes got huge, Bruce honestly had no idea that couples experimented with sex this way, and pretty much though all that kind of stuff was made up for magazines, and movies. The thought of getting to be with the one you love and getting to experiment too, really turned him on, and I was glad to hear that. We continued to talk about this and who we found attractive as we walked downtown, at the mall, or wherever. Just talking about the possibility of being with someone else with your partner was a huge turn on, and love making was turned up a few notches, even though I didn’t think it could at the time!
Just a few short months later Bruce had a college buddy come out to the local bars with us. He asked me if I would want to try that 3 some again that my ex boyfriend ended up not doing. At first I wasn’t sure, I didn’t want to ruin the new fun we had talking about other hotties, and what we would do with them if we ever got the chance. However, it seemed that Bruce really wanted to try this, and I said, yes, let’s give it a go! About half way through the night he asked his buddy if he wanted to fuck me. The guy about dropped dead. At first he said “no way dude, I would never do that to you” Bruce replied, “well that’s too bad as Anna wants to fuck you, and I want to have her give me a blow job while you two fuck.” Bruce’s buddy did a 180, and the next thing I knew we were back at Bruce’s apartment having a 3some with his buddy. At that time it was the most wild and erotic thing I or Bruce had ever done. We both kinda thought that this would be a one time thing. So, Bruce set up a video camera and video taped the whole thing. Little did we know that we were not only having our first open type of an experience, but we were also having our first sex on film, that would later become a huge part of our lives.
After that we started looking around for other couples, and we had no luck. It took us almost another year before we found a couple that we could hook up and swap. They then introduced us to several other couples and we started making a lot of great friends in this lifestyle. Since then we have met some of the best people in the world, some very cool couples, and some life long friends!
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