The Female Orgasm!

September 24th, 2008 | Anna and Bruce | Educational

Achieving the female orgasm has plagued, haunted and frustrated men for decades. But it can be achieved & with your help during sex! So, now do I have your full attention?!

Since we have learned that the woman’s clitoris is equivalent to a man’s penis – its almost 5 inches long & starting with the small button that we are all familiar with and extends back under the pelvic bone & splits into a Y and ends with two glands under the lips. We are all familiar with the clit as the little button at the top of the vagina. & We are all familiar with the idea of vaginal orgasms & clitoral orgasms, but what if they are actually connected… one in the same?

The Vagina & the Clit

The vaginal canal itself does not have many nerve endings, except at the entryway. So, why do some women orgasm during sex & others only from masturbation? They are actually several factors in a woman’s orgasm, men you didn’t expect a woman to be simple, did you?) Women need direct clitoral stimulation, but the clit is not just the button, so licking only that button is going to take a lot to stimulate the entire clitoris, conversely just thrusting your cock in & out of her vagina is not going to be sufficient either. Perhaps the best way to think of a woman’s clit, is to imagine a penis that is attached to the body, with only the tip exposed & the rest lying under the pelvic bone. Would a man achieve orgasm easily if we just licked the tip of his cock? Some would, some would eventually & some would just get pissed off!

So, how does one work the miracle of simulating the entire clitoris?!! First off, I should point out that a majority of woman achieve orgasm thru friction of the tip of the clit against a man’s pelvic bone, and thrusting in and out of the vagina help create friction against the underlying clitoris. There are several factors in all this working smoothly: how thick is the skin over her button (the hood), how well the size of the partner matches, and posture.

The Directions:

A woman wants to place the lower portion of her public bone (which is way the root of her clitoral shaft lies) on the fleshy part of a man’s pubic bone for friction. Then at the end of each inward thrust of his cock, she wants to roll her pelvis downward & outward. This presses her clitoris between the bones and rubs it upwards. The easiest way for a woman to do this is actually for a man to lay still on his back & let her straddle him, sit on his cock & rock back and forth. But after she gets experienced with positioning herself this came be achieved in other positions if you work together.

A few things to remember:
A woman needs to be aroused for her clit to swell and her hood to pull back and expose the tip of her clit. Her clit needs to swell and engorge just like your dick needs to get hard. Some women have erectile issues, just like men. Viagra & other such medicines have been proven to work effectively for woman as well. There is one catch, unlike a man on Viagra, it will not help if her issues steam from emotional reasons. See women are always more complex!

Now you know how to get her off, you need to stimulate her “get her erect,” she needs to work her hips and position herself well and she needs to be free of emotional barriers. (The last is of course the hardest!)

Sorry that it couldn’t be easier but at least now you know!